Almost an oxymoron.
Parents with half a brain usually don't let their kids act like they do in these types of stories. Most of the time when you hear these kids its because their parents use the game as a babysitter.
I've always been amazed at the amount of parents that let their kids ride the bus to our church without even coming once to check us out. Nothing is wrong at our church and we welcome the parents, but really with all the stories about Catholic priests and molestation... Wouldn't you at least want to come once to make sure its up and up?
A side note -
One time I heard a mother in the background griping at her kid (he sounded 10 at the most) about how all she does all day is clean up his messes.
I couldn't resist; on came the headset and mic and I said "Hey mom, maybe if you didn't allow your kid to play video games all day you wouldn't have to clean up after him".
Sadly, I got no response.
The bottom line is, you can't allow your kid to play this game online and think he will be protected from the community, its very harsh and you should expect that.
Using you in a general sense.